Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Pulling together

The announcements for my son's OSU graduation arrived yesterday, bringing smiles for me and his dad. When we first began making plans for the big day, Ben initially confessed he was not crazy about participating in the ceremony. Tom and I quickly told him it was as much for us as him, maybe even more.

We earned the right to see him receive his diploma, we insisted. He may have been the one going to class and taking the tests but we were right there -- encouraging him, praying for his success, sharing his disappointment at setbacks and cheering his accomplishments. Our checkbook was also called into service, of course!

Maybe I should do announcements, too, when I graduate from this cancer fight; not just for me but for my army of supporters. If we're lucky, we don't do anything by ourselves. Each mountain we climb, each commencement marking the end of one journey and the beginning of new adventures should be celebrated with those who carried us toward the goal with their prayers and support. I am blessed to have many, many supporters cheering me on in this fight!

3 comments:

Mandy said...

His announcements have his correct name on them, right? Did you find out about his diploma yet?

I like your announcements idea!

Anonymous said...

DHi Mary: Thanks for keeping us all updated with your progress. You are going to get past this life distraction soon and "graduate" with honors!

I really appreciate your blog — of course because it has helped me stay up to date — but more importantly, because I have been able to read your wonderful writing. You such a talent.

Prayers,

Doug

Anonymous said...

Mary: We'll all be celebrating with you! I want to thank you for sharing your thoughts as you go through treatment. You are such a talented writer and your blog is uplifting...the message I take from so many of your posts is that the challenges we face can leave a positive mark as well.

Cathy